Get Intimate with Yourself and Ask Yourself the Following 2 Questions:
What am I known for amongst my friends & family? How would they describe me? (People pleaser? Martyr? etc.)
When you have to make a choice, tune in & ask your inner knowing “Is this my authentic choice?"
Am I coming from a place of childhood programming, needing love, approval, and support or am I coming from a place of simply wanting to serve?